Hard to please eveybody

” You cannot please everybody. ”

Looks like the sayings totally implied its truthfulness. Why is it hard to pleased everyone? That it seems like we can’t totally be able to have a good relationship towards others. For just a small talk brings big trouble. For just a small action brings to ruin a good relation. Why is it hard to please everybody?…or simply maybe it is me who is hard to please by everybody? Quite annoying for having this questions.

Is this a matter of attitude or personalities that seemly not all people be able to deal a good relationship towards others? That we’re only doing was to get by others company so that we can lived not alone?

I’m not quite sure if the person who’s closed to me feels comfortable every time that we were together. I got insights that what if she/he is sharing with me with a fake smile? And simply hated me without acting that she/he is. Looks like we made according to our uniqueness of being the same.

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15 Comments

  1. naku, trying to please everybody –that’s one of my weaknesses that I’m trying to correct right now because I end up unhappy in the end. We simply can’t “win” them all. And sometimes we really have to learn to say “No” without worrying if the other person coulndn’t accept such answer or is hurt or disappointed at us for saying so. This is self-respect and self-love — often forgotten by many in life’s priority list, not knowing that this need must first be met in order to be true to others and give something good to the world. The best thing is to focus on those who help us grow as a person, love and accept us for who we are and respect our opinions. The rest is not worth wasting our time.

  2. ganyan talaga. it’s because we have different personalities and different understanding of every situation. kahit you can’t please everyone, the best and most important thing is that you know yourself well that even if that other person agrees with you or not, you are comfortable with what and who you are. ok lang yan… it happens all the time.

  3. Hello eyna and ifoundme, Thank’s guys…it happens talaga na kahit close mo ayaw sa iyo… ewan ko nga kung anong dahilan kung bakit ganun eh…thanks for the things you both said…I’m in a middle of two stones…ang hirap nakawala…naiipit ako…but i know…i’ll make it…salamat!

  4. you’ll be okay. just be positive. isa pa, mukhang may effort naman from your side. i’ll add you up to my blogroll ha?

  5. only when life is perfect, perhaps we can please everybody. life comprises human and life has never been that EVEN as that of being human. sa bisaya pa: mosimang jud!hehe!

    musta?

  6. To ifoundme, thanks for the support, i keep myself be more positive ‘coz ako rin naman ang tutulong sa sarili ko nowadays…salamat! πŸ™‚

    To evs, hello tits!…its been a while…thanks for dropping by. Were okay and i guess the “Marfori” misses you na..dalaw ka naman doon…ingats and regards… :=)

  7. u don’t need to please everybody unless u want to be a politician someday..lols….just be yourself..=)

  8. hello Rio, thanks for the advised, I did to be with myself but seems like it is hard to make a good relation towards a person whom you haven’t know that he/she might hate you secretively…and knowing that person is you considered “close”….hay…

  9. hi ulit!

    I know … it’s easier said and done. But if we try to make an effort and practice the opposite, the rewards might outweigh the other. πŸ™‚

    sya nga pala, I’ve read a wonderful article today from Bo Sanchez. It’s somehow related. It enlightened me so I’m posting here the link to share. God Bless πŸ™‚
    http://bosanchez.ph:80/learn-to-say-no…so-you-can-say-a-bigger-yes-to-life/

  10. That’s life. What’s important is that you treat people fairly and give no harm. It is always part of you mingling with other people with different personalities.

    Live life to the fullest! We all deserve it. =)

  11. Zoroaster says : I absolutely agree with this !

  12. Hello eyna, welcome back again…thanks for coming back and leave some message…I’ve read the article you gave…nice!…somehow…I can move on…i will make it!…thanks for sharing…sa uulitin!… πŸ™‚

    Hello Callcentergal, thanks for dropping by and for sharing your thoughts….I do really appreciated it a lot. you know what?…It is hard to give fairly to anyone not knowing that what you have said and done was totally a mistake to them…It is hard to live with people whom you haven’t know who’s true or not to you….hay…looks like It’s all coming back to me now…again…toinkz!…by the way, I visited your site..nice one…I once dreamed of being a cal center agent…but I guess, I need more self-confidence…aja! Thanks again!

    Hello Zoroaster, thanks for dropping on my page…thanks for the comment..hope there would be more comments to read from you…thanks!

    To all, thanks guys…thanks a lot! πŸ™‚

  13. Hi! I was surfing and found your blog post… nice! I love your blog. πŸ™‚ Cheers! Sandra. R.

  14. Sign: umsun Hello!!! rcuwwymhyw and 6426ssgfhphzye and 2623I like your blog. cool post!

  15. To sandrar — thanks! it seems like we are not out to please everybody…hahhahahha…

    To megan fox — hello there…thanks for the comment, i don’t get the meaning but i guess it’s a nice one to hear from you…cooooooolllllllllllllllllllll….. πŸ™‚


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