In good times, In bad times

Oftentimes, the difference between a happy person and someone who is not, where they often get how they handle their moods. The happy person isn’t always happy. In some different ways, a happy person has it all to have their fair share of what they feel.

When I am in my quite and relaxed mood, I’ve find something grateful, that I can manage both good and bad times that comes on my way. I perhaps understand that those good and bad moods I’m going through has a life balance, that life’s may come and go, so as people also.

Even when I’m experiencing negative thoughts and bad feelings, I come up on my mind that there will come a time that I able to experience the opposite way. That I will be able to be happy.

For me, as a fair person, it is the way things are. That when we feel angry, stressed, disappointed and low moods, we relate and handle the situation with open-mindedness and understanding. That instead of fighting the feeling, we have this grateful acceptance on those things. That, it is only a trials that we should surpass on. That rather than feeling it in a worst way, we be able to know that someone also is whom gets low from time to time. We take our feelings more comfortable as it may be.

A unhappy person most have it in another way around. Sometimes, when we feel down and low, we take things seriously. We overworked, take ourselves busy in somethings, trying to force ourselves out of the low moods which tends to make things more complicated rather than finding ways to solve it.

Each one of us has a different ways on how to deal with our feelings. Me? By the next time that I feel bad, rather than fight, it is easy to try how to be patient and relax. It is easy to feel more calm and don’t fight those bad feeling inside, try to figure it out and solve it then. Time will come it will pass away.


Too many questions

Which is which? Fight for your love? or set them free?

Which is right? forgive then forget? or forget then forgive?

What is really right? I love you because I need you? or I need you because I love you?

To see is to believe or believe to see it?

More importantly, love for a reason? or love is the reason?

Actions speaks louder than words but still word hurts more than action…

Those were the questions I frequently encounter during all of my conversations with my friends. We had a lot of views when we come up with all of this topic. Agree some, disagree some, changing views, debate for a long period of time and still at the end of everything is that all of us comes up with respective thoughts which we basically respects.

We have more views in order to express our thoughts in regards to the topics stated but then in typical ending. Everyone has a freedom to express their thoughts and views, and by that all of us should respect other thoughts.

In the end, still the questions will remain a question.